Horoscope matching, also called Kundali matching, is the so-called ritual or practice done by Indians to check the compatibility of bride and groom. This matching helps in predicting the future events that could happen. Matching horoscopes is a practice that has been followed for years till now. And it is believed that matching horoscopes help a couple to keep their relationship healthy and avoid negativity around them. This is also known as Kundali matching. In this blog, we will look at the importance of horoscope matching for marriage.
Importance of horoscope matching
Over the generations, it has been believed to match horoscopes of two individuals for a successful married life. Here are essential points to be considered as successful:
- Ensure stability after marriage.
- Avoid separations and divorces.
- Avoid conflicts by any means.
- Determining doshas and remedies to neutralize them.
- Give peace after marriage.
- Emotional connections between two individuals.
- Future goals shared by both partners.
- Social acceptance of couples.
- Communication styles, or ways of expressing things.
- Spiritual compatibility between partners.
- Biological and sexual compatibility between two.
- Longevity of the marriage.
Modern perspectives in marriages
Today, in modern society, the definition of successful marriage is a bit different than traditional reasons. Although, it still consists of traditional significance.
- Love and priority—It consists of emotions, respect of partners, bonding between them, shared values, and transparent communication.
- Rational thinking—the thinking and ideas, beliefs, and practices of both the individuals.
- Education and job profiles—Educated partners with stable jobs and relocation plans.
- Lifestyle—way of living and choices made to live the life they desire or manifest.
- Financial stability—Managing finance in different ways and ways of dealing with money and prosperity.
These are the basic needs and perspectives of the people in modern marriages. If these listed matches were maintained and balanced, it would be considered a successful marriage.
Guna milan
In vedic astrology, there are 8 parameters (ashtakoota) that are analyzed to check compatibility. In these 8 parameters, a total of 36 factors are divided. To pass this compatibility check, you need to match 18 guna for a successful union, though it is not fixed or a test in which you pass or fail, but a minimum score to live in a happy and healthy relationship. The higher the score, the better the relationship. Here is the given list of what these 8 parameters (ashtakoota) are about:
- Varna Koot-Â
Refers to the caste or status of an individual. Divided into 4 categories—Brahmins, Kshatriyas, Vaishyas, and Shudras—with their own uniqueness and characters. It carries 1 point out of 36.
- Vashya Koot-
Refers to power between the partners and focuses on dominance, mutual balance, and influence on each other of both individuals. It carries 2 points.
- Tara Koot-
It deals with emotions and physique. Analyzes the health and longevity of the relationship. It carries 3 points.
- Yoni Koot-Â
The word ‘yoni’ means womb and represents the goddess Shakti. It measures sexual compatibility with a maximum of 4 points.
- Graha Maitri Koot-
It deals with emotional and mental compatibility between the partners. The friendship shared by couples considering their moon sign with 5 points.
- Gana Koot-
Gana refers to the nature and behavior of the individual. It is divided into three types, namely Dev (god), Manav (human), and Asura/ rakshasa (demon). It carries 6 points.
- Bhakoot Koot-
It means the moon sign. Symbolizing the emotional and financial condition of both individuals. It is determined by the nakshatra, or birth star, of both partners. It should be different for both bride and groom, and it carries 7 points.
- Nadi Koot-
The most crucial compatibility is Nadi Koot. It is related to the health and genetics of the bride and groom. It carries the highest points, which is 8. It is classified into 3 categories that are madhya, aadi, and antya nadi. The nadi of both the partners must be different.
Mangalik Dosha
This dosha occurs when Mars occupies a specific position in your birth chart. It is believed that occupying a particular position by Mars leads to problems in marriage and in married life. Many kundali are mangalik, but most of the doshas are cancelled due to many combinations and the influence of other planets. If it did not happen, then there are other remedies and rules to nullify the Mangalik effect.
Navamsa Chart (D9 Chart)
This chart is used to analyze marriage and partners. This chart also predicts the timing of marriage. It is determined by the placement of Lagna Lords in different houses. It is divided into 9 equal parts, which indicates each zodiac sign.
Planetary positions
The seventh house in your birth chart represents marriage. Any planet placement influences the seventh house, which affects the marriage and its timings. Peek at the seventh house in importance while analyzing the birth chart, as it gives insight into your married life.
Practice of matching kundali totally depends on an individual and their beliefs. As per astrology, it is necessary to avoid upcoming issues, find ways to handle them, and make important decisions without fear. Other than that, love, respect, loyalty, and trust are the main four pillars to make a married life successful. Understand each other whether you are matching your kundali or not.