Before you venture into the world of dating, you must know what you’re getting into. If you’re uncertain what it is you’re looking for or how you are even supposed to conduct yourself in the relationship, don’t worry. We’ve got you covered. In this article, we’ll discuss all of this.
The Different Types of Dating
Just as there are various ways you can meet someone and different types of people with different sets of personalities and goals, there are also several types of dating. We’ve categorized the most common types of dating according to intention.
1. Dating for Fun
When you date someone with no strings attached, it’s classified as dating for fun. What that means is you don’t expect anything from the other person, and the other person does not expect anything from you, as well. This type of dating is just to have someone you can spend your time with.
2. Experimental Dating
This is something that’s more for self-growth than for the chance of a serious relationship. Just like dating for fun, experimental dating is also a no-strings-attached environment.
However, it’s when you date to get out of your comfort zone, which means the person you’re dating is not someone you usually don’t get attracted to. This will result in self-introspection and help you grow personally.
3. Dating to See
Going a little deeper than the two types of dating we’ve previously mentioned, we have dating to see. In this type of dating, you date someone to see whether you’re compatible. You start talking about your individual goals, future, and what each of you values.
4. Dating to Decide
The last type of dating on this list is dating to decide. This type of dating is more intent-driven as compared to all the other types on this list. It’s about being involved with someone and dating exclusively before deciding whether you both think you should take it to the next step and be in a romantic relationship or get married.
Keys to a Successful Relationship
Since all the things we’ve discussed on dating may lead, whether intentionally or not, to a romantic relationship, we’ve decided that we should also briefly introduce what makes a relationship great. This way, you’d get to know whether someone you’re dating may be fit for a more serious relationship.
1. Trust and Honesty
Trust is perhaps one of the most significant factors in making a relationship work because, at the core of it, it’s about vulnerability. When you let your guards down and be widely open to someone, you believe that the person will not let you down, and that makes a relationship stronger. On the other hand, when your partner trusts you, you should also be honest and live up to your word.
If you’re going to spend the rest of your life with someone else, it only makes sense to guarantee that the two of you do not fight over the simplest things. Meaning, by enjoying, learning from each other, and valuing the same things, you can ensure there are lesser things in the world where you’d fight with your partner.
3. Goal Orientation
This is something that’s not often talked about in relationships but one that can greatly affect them. The goal you have for the future should be inclined, or at least does not contradict your partner’s. The family you want to build, how you want to raise your children, and how you should apply and pay for home loans to provide shelter for your family are all important. Discussing this with your partner would help both of you face the future with certainty.
Lastly, and perhaps this is something that people often look over, is about individuality. When you’re in a relationship, it’s easy to lose track of who you are and change the essential parts of you for the other person. If this goes on, one way or another, you’ll lose the sense of who you are and get lost in the relationship. We believe that a healthy relationship means being with someone who doesn’t just tolerate your quirks but actually likes them.
This is merely just a single small step towards the realization of this endeavor. After this comes a whole new world of things you need to learn about relationships and how to make them grow, but you can rest assured that you had a great start by reading this article. We hope that this has been helpful to you. While this article might have provided you with brief insights on dating, keep in mind that there are still lots of differences between relationships, and paying attention or knowing how to deal with them is just as important.