Alright, so here’s how it started.
I was scrolling one night and saw this post about breast forms—had no idea what they even were. Just looked kinda soft and round and… interesting? Fast forward like 6 months, and now I own two pairs of silicone breast forms, and they’re honestly kinda life-changing.
At first, I felt weird even Googling it. Like—what am I doing? Is this normal? Then you realise, loads of people do it. Like, loads. And there’s a whole community of crossdressers in Australia, just doing their thing quietly.
Breast Forms Just… Make Stuff Feel Right
So yeah, the forms. They’re not just to “look curvy” or whatever. It’s the way it changes how you carry yourself. Clothes fit better. You look in the mirror, and it’s like—that looks like the version of me that was stuck inside for a long time.
I started with foam. Bad idea. No weight, no shape. Then I ordered silicone breast forms from an online seller, and wow, whole different thing. Warm up your skin. They bounce (a bit). They feel… not fake, if that makes sense.
Best part? Didn’t take 5 weeks to ship like the US ones. Found a breast form Australia site, and they had fast shipping. Bit pricey, but honestly, worth it. I got my parcel on my door in 2 days only.
Finding a Shop That Actually Gets It
Biggest tip I can give: don’t buy from a costume store. Please. Just don’t.
I found this crossdresser shop online (don’t wanna gatekeep, but message me if you want to know more about it) that sells stuff actually made for our bodies. Padded panties that don’t dig into your sides. Bras that hold forms without slipping. It’s the little things.
Also? They had discreet packaging. No weird box that screams “CROSSDRESSER STUFF INSIDE!” which was nice because, you know, family.
If You’re in Brisbane – Hey
I live close to Brisbane, so let me just say, crossdressing in Brisbane? Not as rare as you think.
There are a couple of groups I’ve found on FB and other chatting platforms. Some people meet up, some just chat. No pressure. If you’re shy, just lurk for a bit. That’s what I did. Eventually said hi to a few people. Made a friend. Changed everything.
Also heard there’s a local shop in the area too, haven’t been yet, but planning to check it out.
Stuff I Learned (Sometimes the Hard Way)
Let me save you some time:
- Go one size smaller than you think you want, especially for breast forms.
- Don’t cheap out. You’ll end up replacing them anyway.
- Pocket bras are easier than glue if you’re just starting.
- Take selfies. Sounds weird, but helps you get used to how you look.
- Be patient with yourself. You’ll have weird days. That’s okay.
Final Bit
Not here to be inspirational or anything. Just saying—if you’re in Australia, if you’re figuring out crossdressing, if you’re curious about how breast forms might help you feel more “you it’s okay to try.
I messed up a few times. Ordered the wrong thing. Felt dumb. Thought I’d never wear them outside the house.
But now? I know Crossdressing Australia; I’m not hiding so much. I wear what I want in my room. Took a walk outside one night. Just a hoodie and forms under. Small step. Felt big.
And honestly? That’s enough for now.
